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It happens more often than it should when people forget about essential factors that form the
foundation of long-lasting and happy relation. This or that typical situation may lead to the dead-end
of relationship between partners if one of them or both ignore each other's relation needs. That's
how couples usually come to break up, depression, disaster or fighting day after a day.
Here you can find the 10 key-advices for you and your partner to follow in relationship. Try to analyze your relationship and reveal the weaknesses in your relationship (sure if there any) and then it will be much easier for you to find the solution.
10 Key-Advices To Build Your Love
You can see the list of "10 Advices for your Love Relation" below. Read further and you'll find explanation for each point mentioned.
2. Be the best friend
3. You MUST NOT but WANT
5. A sense of care
6. Be Honest
8. Stability and security
9. A sense of Equality
TRUST is the most important thing, on which every strong relationship is based on. Trust is your prayer; it is your life buoy in the ocean of misunderstanding and quarrels. Love doesn't exist without trust. It is the foundation. Remeber, trust is built and supported day by day in usual acts and daily behavior. In order not to risk trust just do not do anything suspicious that may make your partner worry. Otherwise you can damage your relations pretty bad. It is always harder to restore what was damaged than just keep it healthy.
That's what you might heard in every second movie about love, read in every second romantic book and still a lot of people forget about it. Being the best friend to your partner is not less important than being a lover. This way your partner will share his/her thoughts, experience and feelings with you skipping nothing. You will be the person who she/he is going to open the heart out. It is very important and it's what guarantees long-lasting and happy relation.
There is no such word as 'Need' in long-lasting relationship. You MUST NOT do anything you should WANT to do it. Relationship is about feelings and feelings are about what you WANT and there is nothing to do with 'must'. From the very beginning you choose the person you WANT to be with. Just don't go against your nature, be yourself and be honest with your partner and yourself this way you can keep your relationship in normal.
Communication itself is the basis of any relations. The lack of communication leads to all kinds of problems because each one of us wants to feel attention; everybody wants to be heard by friends, family and our partners. Think about how relation's problems start. Sometimes you don't feel like talking to anybody or your partner feel the same way while you want to talk, you don't have enough time to spend with people you are in relations with and it's where the tension happens. Basically you just need to keep in touch as much as you can and never ignore people who want to be with you. Pay attention to your partner's problems and share his/her misfortunes and joy.
Care about people you love! We get into relations because we want to feel support, we want to be heard and understood. It works not only for love relations but for any other as well. Don't you want you friends to come and support you when you don't feel well or things aren't going great? People around you feel the same way. Treat people just like you want them to treat you. This is very simple rule and it's easy to follow especially if you truly love person you are with. That what keeps our relations healthy and makes people around us happy.
Be honest, be transparent and be sincere with people around you. You cannot under-rate the importance of these qualities. No matter if it is love relationships or just a friendship still these are the essential criteria that bring happiness and joy in relations. If you love is pure and fair then it won't be a problem for you to keep honesty and mutual sincerity between you. If you don't feel that your relations with partner aren't honest all the way and you worry about it, then it might be the time for you to pay some attention to it and do something to fix. Don't hesitate, the longer you wait the harder it gets do change it to better.
We can't be right all of the time and make people act the way we want if you value your relationships. There is nothing wrong to compromise. We have to realize that all the people in this world are different and nobody can't feel and think exactly the same way with you. None of us is perfect so make an effort, try to understand other people's point of view. Do not criticize everything you hear and see. Share your ideas but do not impose on accepting them. You can discuss it and finally come to a compromise that will meet both your views.
Sense of security is not that much about financial stability but more about emotional security because when people don't feel secured when they are with you there is not much can be done with money. Basically you need to surround your partner with attention and readiness to help no matter what. If you are able to do that then there your partner is never going to compare you with his/her ex and the topic of breaking up will never show up because people feel the stability from being with you, they feel calm and satisfied with everything that you bring in their lives.
Dominance from your side or from the side of your partner inevitably leads to destruction. You have to keep in mind that everyone has right to express their views, to tell you what they got on mind. Moreover they want to hear what you have to say about it but nobody wants to be ignored. Relations happen between TWO people and consequently there must be TWO voices, don't you think so?
Do not avoid discussions and sharing each other emotions and thoughts. These feelings are supposed to be mutual. You cannot be with somebody driving it all by yourself.
Actually if you feel it and you know for sure that your partner feel the same way with you then you can ignore everything what was said above. Love your partner! This is all it takes. Love itself is embodiment of honesty, equality, stability, happiness, friendship, care and communication. If you have LOVE you've got everything you need that is necessary for building strong, happy and long-lasting relationships. Do not hide it! There is nothing wrong with reminding, with telling your partner that you actually do love him or her. Share your feelings, surprise your partner, and give all you have and you can expect your lover to act the same way. Each second you spend with your lover should give you joy, it